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Sandra Pawula's avatar

What a beautiful story of authenticity and testimony to mindfulness.

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Lucy Squire's avatar

Thank you Sandra, I appreciate you taking the time to write that ❤

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Alexander Lovell, PhD's avatar

The line "They didn't realize how much it meant to me" struck a chord. It's a poignant reminder that we can't expect others to be mind-readers. We have to be willing to communicate our needs and expectations clearly and compassionately. This doesn't guarantee that they'll always be met, but it opens the door for deeper understanding and connection.

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Lucy Squire's avatar

Yes totally doesn't mean our needs will be met, but this process alone has massively transformed my relationship with this person. I definitely kept assuming they knew what was on my mind and got angry they didn't do what I wanted - until I started calmly communicating that with them 🤷‍♀️ such a simple thing!

Thanks for taking the time to comment Alex 🥰

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