"you can be honest AND it can hurt people’s feelings. BUT that doesn’t mean honesty isn’t good or that people don’t want to hear how you feel."
At the end of the day, we really cannot control the emotions and feelings of others anyways. But if people find out that we weren't honest? It usually ends up with more than hurt feelings.
YES! I have a follow up post that effectively shares this - how I used to bottle up my feelings and not share honestly how I felt, and then it would eventually explode with not-great consequences. Being honest about my feelings is a big one for me, and one I've already done a lot of work on, and the recent EFT I did on this has felt like another big turning point 🤩
Ooof. I love this:
"you can be honest AND it can hurt people’s feelings. BUT that doesn’t mean honesty isn’t good or that people don’t want to hear how you feel."
At the end of the day, we really cannot control the emotions and feelings of others anyways. But if people find out that we weren't honest? It usually ends up with more than hurt feelings.
YES! I have a follow up post that effectively shares this - how I used to bottle up my feelings and not share honestly how I felt, and then it would eventually explode with not-great consequences. Being honest about my feelings is a big one for me, and one I've already done a lot of work on, and the recent EFT I did on this has felt like another big turning point 🤩